Do charisma and attraction marketing go hand in hand?
What is charisma? Most people think of charisma as something mystical, almost undefinable. They think it’s a quality you were born with or you don’t have it at all.
It is said that charisma, plain and simple is the ability to draw people to you. And like other character traits, it can be developed.
To make yourself the kind of person who attracts others, these pointers should be in your life.
1. Love Life
People enjoy others who enjoy life. Think of the people you want to spend time with. What kind of people are they? Grumpy? Bitter? Depressed? No, of course not. They are celebrators, not complainers. They love life and are passionate about it. If you want to attract people, you need to be like the people you enjoy being with.
2. Put a “10” on Every Person’s Head
Putting a “10” on everyone’s head is to expect the best of them. It helps others think more highly of themselves, and at the same time it also helps you. If you appreciate others, encourage them, and help them reach their potential, they will love you for it.
3. Give People Hope
Hope is the greatest of all possessions. If you can be the person who bestows that gift on others, they will be attracted to you, and they will be forever grateful.
4. Share Yourself
People love leaders who are open and share themselves and their experiences. As you relate and lead people, give of yourself. Share wisdom, resources, and even special occasions. In essence, offer value.
When it comes to Charisma, the bottom like is being other minded. Myself, I think charisma and attraction marketing do go hand in hand. When I think about the reasons I joined a group, company, church or system it was because I took a liking to someone or something.
With that I will just say, in Mentoring For Free I am finding that the people exhibit the four points listed above. If you haven’t inquired into what Mentoring For Free is all about, I invite you to. It could literally change your life.
Have we arrived yet? Are we perfect? No, but we are well on our way!
Love and enjoy life,
Lynn Jones
http://lynnjones.mentoringforfree.com
